You make it sound like people are spending $1500 a month in Uptown because they don't realize there are houses in the suburbs that cost less, which is certainly not the case. I'm sure you can spend $1100 a month in Uptown and $1500 a month in the suburbs.
Did you read my posts in their entirety?
To quote myself from earlier with additional emphasis: "
There ARE reasonable rents to be had in Uptown. When I had been renting in Lowertown whilst in college, the rental market was still pretty weak and I lived with friends so the costs were still pretty low to live in Galtier!
I just don't think luxury apartments offer particularly good value, nor make much sense for folks my age who are renting them. It is all a numbers game, in my opinion."
If you live in a luxury apartment, yet aren't able to save money - then there is a problem. And that is a situation I see people of my generation getting themselves into far too easily.
My rule of thumb is that we have a responsibility to take care of ourselves first, friends and family second, and everyone else after that. That said, I am actively involved in my church community and do believe in volunteering our time, talents, and treasure ($).
I find this point of view to be morally repugnant if for no other reason than we are all interconnected and it is not possible for a person to be %100 responsible for themselves. We are all responsible for each other. It's called a society.
You think it's morally repugnant to give of my time, talent and treasure secondary to ensuring my own needs for food and shelter are being met?
If you don't take care of yourself and your own needs first, who will? I'm not saying NOT to take care of other people. I am saying that your primary responsibility is to ensure your own needs are being met. I don't want you to try and take care of my needs while neglecting yours. That's the epitome of a lose-lose situation.
You are right. We DO live in a society. A society is compromised of individuals, each with our own unique goals, circumstances, and talents. This nation was founded on the belief that the individual must be the master of his or her own domain. That's why we have property rights, as well as inalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Your goal in life should be to achieve your own happiness without trampling on others pursuit of happiness. Only then can you truly start helping other people be happy, because you will know what it takes to make yourself happy. I get a lot of fulfillment being involved with my church's outreach programs - everything from making sandwiches for Dorothy Day Center to volunteering in soup kitchens. That's really outside the realm of the value of living in a "luxury" apartment as a millennial, though.
I'm curious, what monetary values did you assign to the Walkscore of your residence vs. these urban luxury apartments? Bicycle infrastructure? Proximity to a transit stop with frequent service? Ability to walk/bike to the grocery store or local pub? Proximity to dense job centers if your current employment situation does not pan out? What is the net monetary value you assigned to not owning a car, yet still being able to do everything you want?
As I stated earlier, I live 4 miles north of the 3M campus where I typically work, and reside near 36/694/120. I can't walk to the grocery store -- but the Cub Foods is within walking distance of work and each week 3M has Farmer's Markets. 3M actually has their own area providing various services, similar to a mini downtown complete with skyway system. I encourage you to visit the 3M campus sometime - it is a city unto itself complete with a skyway system and stores.
Pioneer Press actually wrote about 3M's mini city recently.
I can and do walk/bike to the convenience store by my house, the nearby Caribou, nearby pizzaria, nearby DQ, and nearby bar. It takes me less than 10 minutes to drive my paid-off car to work, 20 minutes to get to downtown St Paul (40 minutes if I bike on the
Gateway state trail), and 30 minutes to get to downtown Minneapolis on the express bus. In the winter, I drive my Honda to 3M which doesn't even have enough time to warm up. In the summer I ride my bike. Everything I need is nearby. Sometimes my consulting company has me come to their home office in downtown Minneapolis, in which case I take the 270 express bus from Maplewood. I'm not exactly residing in the boonies of Eden Prairie or Woodbury; I AM reasonably close enough to job centers if my situation falls through. I enjoy riding the bus, actually. When it is reasonably fast and efficient, it certainly beats the pants off of driving.
My cost of living is incredibly low. My cost of living when I resided in Lowertown St Paul was also incredibly low, because the rental market when I lived there was fairly weak. I don't think I could justify that expense anymore, due to the increases in costs of living in this area. I'd consider it if they do build the Gateway LRT. I don't plan on living where I am forever, either.
I will continue to drive home the point that it is a
numbers game. If the numbers stop being in my favor in Oakdale, I will move to a location where they are in my favor. That's why I am no longer living in Lowertown. I want my cost of living to be low, I want to live close to work, and everything I want should be inbetween the two to maximize efficiency. I have found that location, and it is working well for me without useless amenities.